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  1. Who are you guys, and how did this all come about?
  2. So you became friends with dozens of women? Did this work?
  3. So what – your books, audio series, and courses show guys how to pick women up at bars and get laid?
  4. OK, so you’re really going step by step and providing guys with practical advice at each point along the way. So who are your books, audio series, and courses for?
  5. Why does all of this work?
  6. But don’t women just want good-looking guys, much like guys want good-looking women?
  7. But don’t women love jerks?
  8. So you’re telling guys how they can be nice & still get women. But we’ve all heard that nice guys don’t get women?
  9. How much does confidence matter?
  10. So, unlike other authors, you’re big advocates of NOT being aggressive when you first meet a woman?
  11. So what are women really looking for on a date? How much does money matter?
  12. Other books have been written trying to help guys get girls. What makes your books, audio series, and courses different from the rest?
  13. What has the reaction been to your books, audio series, and courses? How are they selling?
 

1. Who are you guys, and how did this all come about?
“We used to be pathetic. We were so bad in college that not only wouldn’t girls sleep with us, and not only wouldn’t girls date us, but women wouldn’t even be friends with us! Girls would NOT give us the time of day. So we set out on a mission: to become friends with dozens of women and understand first-hand what women are looking for.”

2. So you became friends with dozens of women? Did this work?
“Absolutely. We committed ourselves to becoming friends with a multitude of women. We would go out with these girls, and watch other guys try to pick them up, some successfully and many unsuccessfully. Many months of study resulted in us uncovering three invaluable articles of knowledge for success with women: how girls want to be approached, what they're expecting on a first date, and how they want to be treated in a relationship—any relationship.”

3. So what – your books, audio series, and courses show guys how to pick women up at bars and get laid?
“We want to be very clear here. Our material is NOT at all about 1-night stands. If what you’re looking for is some ‘quick technique’ to be able to go into a bar and take women home that night, this aren't the books for you. In these books, we walk guys through the process of: where to meet women, how to approach them, how to start a conversation, how to ask for her contact info, how to ask a woman out, what you should do on the first date, everything step-by-step all the way up through having great sex and building a strong relationship. Most guys tell us that they knew some of the things we discuss, but also tell us that we provide a lot of great advice that they never really thought about. That’s what we’re here for: to fill in the pieces!”

4. OK, so you’re really going step by step and providing guys with practical advice at each point along the way. So who are your books, audio series, and courses for?
“Exactly. Our books, audio series, and courses are for average guys like us, guys who were never really taught how women want to be approached, and how they want to be asked out. I mean – our whole problem is that we’re not rich, not famous, and not good-looking. So we never really got women. Until we figured out that there are other ways to make yourself attractive to a woman. That’s what really turned our lives around.”

5. Why does all of this work?
“Everything we teach is based on simple principles of attraction. Men are attracted to certain things (namely, phyiscal beauty), and women are attracted to other things. As guys, we're lucky - women are attracted to a multitude of traits - not just physical appearance. All we're doing is telling guys how they can make themselves more attractive to women, by focusing on some of these other principles of attraction!

6. But don’t women just want good-looking guys, much like guys want good-looking women?
“It's not physical attraction alone that makes a woman fall for a guy, but a complex combination of things, such as how a guy makes her feel about herself, how well he listens to her, and whether she thinks he views her purely as a sex object, to name a few. As mentioned, we will never be rich, famous, or good-looking; luckily, however, we've figured out that by focusing on other aspects of attraction, women actually consider us hot!”

7. But don’t women love jerks?
“It’s a myth that women like guys who are jerks. And here’s where and how this myth originated. Back in high school and college, about 10% of the guys realized that because they either played on a sports team, were in a popular fraternity, or were really good-looking, they got a lot of girls. What ended up happening is that this 10% got so many girls that they naturally became arrogant and cocky. What this looks like to the remaining 90% of the male population is that these guys get women because they're jerks. That's simply not the case.”

8. So you’re telling guys how they can be nice & still get women. But we’ve all heard that nice guys don’t get women?
“We've all heard the myth that nice guys can't get girls. This is completely untrue. It is because most "nice guys", even guys with the best of intentions, don't convey to women that they have a life of their own. If a nice guy isn't getting girls, it's most commonly because he's dwelling on women, rather than having a life of his own. There is a key difference between being a Nice Guy and a doormat. This difference is being able to convey to women that your life does not revolve around them. If you come running every time a girl calls, then she will realize that she can walk all over you.”

9. How much does confidence matter?
“Confidence is crucial, and it’s something that you really can’t fake. When you are confident, you don’t need to talk about yourself. You don’t need to show your muscles. You don’t need to use big words to sound like you’re smart. You're secure and comfortable with who you are, and that is attractive to women. By truly becoming a Nice Guy, as we teach, you will naturally gain confidence. It is the difference between being a doormat, and being someone women want. Why do women love confidence? The reason for it is simple: it makes them feel secure.”

10. So, unlike other authors, you’re big advocates of NOT being aggressive when you first meet a woman?
“Absolutely. Women want to know that you are interested in them as a person, not as a sex object. The more attractive the woman, the more impressed she’ll be if you show interest in her as a person. Attractive women are used to guys in aggressive pursuit. They’re used to every guy wanting them. When you play it cool, it’s a new experience for her, and she’ll find it intriguing.”

11. So what are women really looking for on a date? How much does money matter?
“How much money you spend on a girl during a date does not matter. The fact that money matters on dates is a huge myth, which causes a lot of guys to waste tons of money trying to impress the woman. The most important thing is how great of a conversation you have, and how much fun the two of you have, not how much money you spend on her.”

12. Other books have been written trying to help guys get girls. What makes your books, audio series, and courses different from the rest?
“Many other books take the ‘brute force’ approach. They encourage guys to approach every woman they see throughout the course of a day: on the subway, in a bookstore, in the grocery store. The problem is that the majority of women don’t want to be approached while grocery shopping after a long day at work. I mean – you’re bothering her! And the more you’re bothering a woman, the greater the chance that you’ll get rejected. These repeated rejections will only serve to lower your confidence which, in turn, makes it even more difficult to meet women. Unlike those other books, we focus on where women actually want to meet guys, how women want to be approached and, in general, how women want to be treated and talked to, so you get fewer & fewer rejections, which keeps your confidence high!”

13. What has the reaction been to your books, audio series, and courses? How are they selling?
“Well, if you'll notice, most other authors of books about attracting women only have one book each. Not only do we have a series, but our books have been so tremendously successful, that we've had a high demand to develop audio series and courses! We currently have over 50,000 copies of our books in print, including a Japanese translation of the first book in the series, and we are trying to keep up with readers' demands for even more material! We are currently developing more products, and more courses, so keep your eyes posted!"
 
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