Questions to Ask a Woman That You Have Just Met

Here are some topics for discussion when you first meet a woman. These will allow you to make great conversation, and provide you with future date ideas. Do not ever ask these questions rapid-fire. These are simply meant to spark conversation, not to be asked sequentially. Inevitably, a question will send the two of you off on some random tangent, allowing you to keep the conversation flowing even longer. That is exactly the purpose of these questions. If you find yourself going through this list in order, then this woman probably doesn’t want to talk to you right now. Go talk to someone else.

Background

• So are you from <this city>?

• Oh, where are you originally from?

• Do you like <city you’re from>?

• Have you lived there your whole life?

• Where else have you lived?

Current City

• So why’d you come to <this city>?

• How long have you lived here?

• What part of town do you live in?

• What part of town do you normally go out in?

• How often do you go out? (Politely)

Career / Job

• So where do you work?

• Do you like it?

• How long have you worked there?

• Where did you work before that?

School

• So did you go to school around here?

• Where did you go to school?

• Why did you choose <school>?

• Did you like it?

• What did you major in?

• Why did you choose <major>?

• Did you like it?

• Have you thought about going back to school?

• To study what?

• Where have you thought about applying?

Friends

• So, do you have a lot of friends from school who live here in <city>?

• Where did most of your friends end up moving?

• (Try to lead into discussion of cities you’ve visited or where your friends live)

Family

• So does your family live in <city>?

• Do you visit them often?

• Do you have any siblings?

• Younger or older?

• Where do they live?

• Are you close to them?

• (Discuss your own siblings, their ages, where they live, and how close you are)

Travel

• Ask if she’s been to any cool nearby places, such as a nearby beach, ski resort, National Park, campground, city, tourist attraction, college, vineyard, or lake. Try to get a feel for what she enjoys doing and where she hasn’t yet been but would love to go.

Sports

• So did you go to football/basketball games at <school>?

• Are you a sports fan?

• What sports do you follow (if any)?

• Do you play any sports?

Entertainment

• What’s your favorite TV show?

• What TV shows do you watch regularly?

• Have you seen any good movies lately?

• What are your favorite types of movies?

• What is your all-time favorite movie?

• Are there any movies out now that you want to see? (Try to be subtle; don’t imply too much)