Testimonials for products in The Nice Guys' Guide^™ Series!

(Names and specific details have often been changed to protect our readers' privacy)

"Our marriage had reached the point where we’d only had sex 3 times in the last 5 years. I wasn’t even sure if she still loved me anymore. I tried a million things, bringing her flowers, taking her out to nice dinners, buying her jewelry. Still nothing. I couldn’t even get her to talk about what was wrong with our marriage. Then, a friend of mine got me your book on a whim. He said, ‘Hey, Robert. Try reading this. It might help.’ And it did, this has changed my life! Not only is our sex life improved, but I feel like, for the first time in about 5 or 6 years, my wife and I actually understand each other. And we enjoy spending time together once again. Thanks John & Steve for saving my marriage."
- Robert, a 34-year-old man who has been married for eight years

"I’ve never had much luck with girls. In fact, as much as it hurts me to write this, I made it to 19 as a virgin. Don't get me wrong, I’ve been out on dates. But I guess the problem is that I can never get to the 3rd date, if you know what I mean. I just really had no clue how to behave on a date. I read your book cover to cover, and then went back and read it a 2nd time. A week later, I was sitting next to this really hot girl in my chemistry class. I struck up a conversation, exactly as you guys instructed. That weekend, I found myself having sushi with her. Only this date was different. It was unlike any date I’ve ever been on. I could tell that she was actually digging me! I don’t think she looked at her watch once the entire time. Best thing is, I didn’t even need a 3rd date, because 3 nights later we went out again and she had sex with me! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you."
- Michael, a 19-year-old college student

"I bought a copy for my friend, Harold. Harold’s a great guy. I’ve been friends with him for 8 years, and let me just say that he has not had much success with the ladies. Which really isn’t fair, because he’s the world’s sweetest guy. Of course, as a woman, I can kind of understand why he doesn’t have success with women. But the thing is, as much as I’ve tried to explain it to him, he just doesn’t get it. So I heard you guys on a radio show, and decided to buy your book for him. You guys said in 150 pages what I haven’t been able to get Harold to understand in 8 years! Harold just has so much more confidence now. I can tell when I’m around him that he actually, finally, feels comfortable interacting with women. Sure, he’s not a walking, talking babe magnet, but he’s so much better off. In fact, I recently introduced him to a couple of my female friends, who have both since asked about him. I mean, my friends – asking about Harold? That just doesn’t happen! I’m almost starting to get jealous! Thanks guys, for a great book. I think every girl should buy it for her platonic male friends!"
- Lisa, a single gal who withheld her age

"It's been a few years since I graduated from college. I have a good job and live in the city now, but man it's so much tougher to meet women than it was in college. In college, there were girls over at the frat house all the time. It was so easy to hook-up. Now, I can't even figure out where to meet women, let alone hook-up. I ordered your book, and read it cover to cover in an hour. I discovered that my main problem is that I was looking for girls in all of the wrong places. Great book, guys—thanks a ton. I've already told all of my friends about it."
- Corey, a 25-year-old professional

"I finally understand why my first marriage failed. And let me tell you, until now I was clueless. I read your guys' book, because I'm single now. And I really read it for tips on where to meet women. But what really helped me is that you pointed out every single thing I did wrong in my first marriage. I'm dating someone now, and I definitely want to get married again someday. I don't know if it'll be to her, but I feel like I finally know what it will take to make a marriage work. I would recommend your book to any guy who wants to make his second marriage work."
- Roger, who is 37 years old and divorced

"I've been trying for years to get Bill to read 'relationship books.' But I haven't been able to get him to read a damn one. I saw you guys on TV, and figured—what the hell—I'll get your book, basically as a last resort. I gave it to Bill, and he read the entire thing that night. Afterward, he came up to me, gave me a big hug, and said: 'Honey, I have 2 things to tell you. #1: I want you to know how beautiful you are. And #2: I'm sorry I haven't told you that in 13 years.'"
- Julia, who withheld her age and is married — happily now

"I live in Ontario California and I first heard these guys on the Jamie & Danny morning radio show (Star 98.7 in Burbank) back in October. I was in my car on the way to work and as soon as I got in the office I jumped on the website. Once I read the first chapter I was hooked! I think these guys have some great ideas. What they say makes a lot of sense and I just never thought of picking up girls this way. I've told all my friends about the book and we are going to try to master the skills. Thanks to Fate & Reil for helping all guys out."
- Ray Hilite, Burbank, CA

"This book is incredible, and what a mind change. These guys actually RESPECT WOMEN! I LOVE this book, These guys are incredible to have written it. I got to tell ya, what a difference… I can tell this is going to be the beginning of a new life for me. Also, these guys are right, by treating women this way, you naturally build up confidence, and you feel good about yourself which, in turn, women can sense. And IT WORKS! Well, this is the end of week 1; I can’t wait for the rest of my life! With this new positive attitude I believe this will help me in my business as well."
-Walt, Texas

"I have used this for a couple of days now and I am projecting a different energy. People sense it & people like it, both men & women! I recommend people reading, reading, & re-reading this book many times. One thing I’ve noticed since reading this is how guys treat girls. Now that I know, my gosh it is like an epidemic, they all do it. (Men acting like pigs!). No wonder guys have a hard time with getting women and girlfriends. If I was a girl, I would be pissed too. How the authors figured this out really blows me away. I feel this book is not just about getting dating, it is about getting along well with all women, and having a RICH relationship with women, both personally and professionally. They teach men to respect women and be sincere about it. It’s amazing how, when you apply something so simple, in return women are so nice to you! It’s a total win-win situation. These guys really hit the jack pot! I’m so glad I was listening to Bottom Line radio & heard them!"
-Harold, California

"I just finished reading this book after seeing these guys on Ricki Lake. Loved it. After reading many other books on the subject of meeting girls, especially books that teach speed seduction, and pick up guides, I found this book refreshing. The first thing I noticed about it is the completely different approach it offers. I fact I may say that even as a guy (who is looking for a serious relationship), if things where turned around and the CCR system was written for women "Make Every Guy Want You", that is the system that would work on me as well. Another big difference is that, the technique is more natural then all others, and it has the flexibility to be used when looking for anything from a casual to dead-serious relationship. Other books on approaching and seducing women are mostly good for "men-seeking-one-night-stands". This book isn’t about seducing women, it’s about treating women with respect."
-Gary, Philadelphia, PA

"Just know that this book is awesome, very easy to digest and gives a guy an immediate sense of direction and hope. Whereas others are just complicated enough to confuse a guy or make him go in a hundred directions at once. Fate and Reil should be proud that they were able to produce such a simple, hopeful, pragmatic and sound conceptual thesis on this topic. Thanks to Fate and Reil for their inherent camaraderie in wanting to help guys all over the world. I wish all the men of CCR years of happiness."
-Kyle, Australia

"I recently attended John Fate’s seminar in NYC in kind of a light hearted way, but found that yes these techniques are serious and well thought out. Most importantly not only are they a good way to meet women but they are very well applied in a business meeting situation, as the importance of good relationships is always under-estimated… I am still learning the techniques of CCR, but have found that they apply in both America, and in my native Australia."
-Mike, Australia

"I am from Slovak Republic, Europe…. I just broke up with my girlfriend, I was very sad, so I was just looking through the internet for some help on meeting girls. I ended up going through all the books on the topic. And [then] I found this book. It was different from the others. So as I needed something to make me happy, I have bought it. And I can say, it was well worth it. Now I am confident in talking to [women] and I like it. Its kind of fun. And I have started to talk pretty intensively with one gorgeous [woman]. The mentality is a little bit different here than from the US. But it seems to work anywhere."
-Robert, Slovak Republic

"I'm so jazzed, after reading the book! When I found this book, after hearing these guys on Craig and Porkchop, I ordered it out of morbid curiosity. I assumed it was some sort of "hump'em and dump'em" book. How wrong I was! It isn't as if the title is misleading. I think the book does what the title claims. However, the book teaches so much MORE than that, that I think the title is unfair. It should really be something like, "CCR: How to Befriend the Female Race". Because you know what? That's exactly what it is. If you want to use CCR to date women, yeah, you can. It's a powerful tool, and powerful tools have powerful uses. But I don't want to use it for that. Don't get me wrong, I'm always thrilled when women want me. But I am, I think, more thrilled to have this brilliant insight into the feminine mind… I understand that I, in my life, have been using CCR for years and not realizing it! And of course now that I know what it is, I don't have to be haphazard about it. I can use it much more effectively now. I’d like to thank Fate & Reil very much, from the bottom of my heart. I'm going to re-read this straight away tomorrow. I can get a social life back now (I just lost my girlfriend of 2 years and found my social life no longer existed--and I regret that I didn't know how to use CCR with her, as I could have been so much a better boyfriend to her)."
-Bill, Portland, OR

"I live in San Antonio and heard these guys on Lisle & Hahn. I ordered it amidst a slew of other books on similar topics, and I found it to be revolutionarily different, not to mention much more natural for me (i.e. I don't have to be a cocky jerk--I can actually be the nice guy I am instead). I've since finished the book, and I plan to re-read it again! Anyway, I'm working at this CCR thing. Obviously it takes a while, but my whole attitude has already changed. I'm lucky enough to already have a few female friends in my life, who have started introducing me to more women, so I'm already off to a good start there. Anyway, these guys rock! It's unfortunate they don't live in San Antonio so I could hang out with them!"
-Alim, San Antonio, TX

"Okay... so I've read the book. I heard about it on Lisle & Hahn's morning show in San Antonio. It's great. I've recommended it to several others. It's true to form. Now I use it as a reference… whenever I don't have a previous experience to answer my questions… and this book has almost turned into a guide book each and every time."
-Miguel, San Antonio, TX

"Great book! I first heard about it on a local DC radio station (Don & Mike). It got great reviews from the talk show hosts. They even called Don's wife up & she said it would work. Anyway, I had to go out & get the book. I personally just got the book and have slowly been learning it. I guess the initial talking to the hot girl part is what has always bothered me. And thanks to these guys, I'm finally getting past that. Anyway, great book!"
-Abu, Washington, DC

"This book contains concise and valuable advice. I too live in New Hampshire and found the book by hearing the authors on Greg and the Morning Buzz. I must admit the cover & title put me off; it sounded like another one of those fast seduction books. When I had looked at everything else though, I thought why not look at this... and I was impressed and intrigued by the comments I read. After reading the book I feel confirmed that it is solid advice. It actually sounds like a huge amount of fun. Now that I have somewhat relinquished desire, I have made some close female friends (including one who is gorgeous). This book seems like the best way to go to get a real relationship. Most women probably think if this guy is 30 and hasn't had a relationship, it's because he doesn't respect women and just wants to fool around. Hmm no, that's not really it. Thanks to this book, I can finally end that streak."
-Sirius, New Boston, NH

"Great book! I found out about these guys after I saw their course listed in the San Fran Learning Annex catalog. I couldn't believe the success it brought me. I am not kidding you that the day after I finished reading it I had a random visit from a girl whom I had met months before at a party but had not seen since. She came over with some dessert she had made for me because she imagined I was busy studying for my finals (I'm a grad student). I hadn't seen her in months - almost forgotten about her!! When we originally met in October she had a boyfriend in another state (and I also had an LD girlfriend). I was immediately attracted to her and I wanted to get to know her, but I figured it was pointless - we were both in relationships. I was nice to her then, but didn't give her a lot of time. Now, all the sudden she's showing up at my door unexpectedly! I decided to follow the process in the book - by inviting her to join me and my group of friends (and bring her own friends) for an evening of wine drinking at a cozy bar in town. We were the first ones to get there and ended up spending the evening drinking wine and talking. I listened to everything she said to me and followed CCR to a tee - and yes – it worked! We ended up going out again the next night and had a great time. I cannot imagine where things are going next. First, I'm gonna reread the entire book to make sure I know CCR inside and out!!!"
-Manny, San Francisco, CA

"I recieved a copy of Make Every Girl Want You at my fraternity this morning after hearing the authors a few days ago on Bubba the Love Sponge. My buddy and I began to read it immediately, not knowing what we were getting into. We found ourselves reading for a good part of the day, we didn't even notice that we had skipped class. We both consider ourselves to be pretty good looking guys and am fairly good at meeting women, however the authors have opened our eyes to an entirely different level of game. Within hours we have taken advantage of the simple techniques mentioned in the begining of the book. For Example: While buying shoes today a very attractive young lady caught my eye. Immediately I thought of ccr and implemented it. I Complimented her on the shoes she was trying on, making sure to keep intense eye contact. I learned that her and her friend (also attractive) attended the school which is 15 min away from me. She said she was going to be in my town that night, and I asked for (and got) her number. These guys are really on to something, and my friends and I plan on becoming men of CCR."
-Rickey, Hartford, CT

"I heard these guys on Bubba the Love Sponge, and I thought it would only be moderate because the title makes it sound like a "from guys for guys" ignorant kind of book, but its actually the best I have so far. Very good material, very well done… Its a great book and advanced my life with the female gender a tenfold. Thanks to the authors for granting me the ability to buy and read it."
-Mike, Sarasota, FL

"Don't give away the secret! I am an average looking guy and have always had girlfriends that made my friends jealous. I have been using techniques very similar to what Fate & Reil describe in the book for quite some time now and it has always worked for me. Now that they're giving everyone the secret it's gonna make it harder on me!"
-Don, Tampa, FL

"I live in Detroit Michigan and I was listening to these guys on WRIF 101 (the Drew and Mike show). It seemed interesting to me to learn about more ideas for meeting women. Great book - Glad to see that I can still meet women, despite my older age!"
-Ricardo, Detroit, MI

"I got this book a few weeks ago, after hearing these guys on Craig and Porkchop, and I read it cover to cover!... It has really helped me out!! Especially what they wrote about how to listen to someone. (I have since made it a point to be especially conscious of eye contact when talking to a woman.)"
-Robbie, Portland, OR

"I love this book! I go to the University of Arizona. The book had a review in our daily newspaper by a woman who gave it a B+. I was impressed about the fact that she agreed that the information in this book will work and she was a woman! So I bought it that same day! I have since been chatting with various women about the role of a man and what they wanted men to act like in particular situations and using the information from the book to see how they would react. (Sort of like a test) And all of these women were like "yeah yeah thats what I want a man to do...and provide emotional support yeah thats right...I wish there were more men like YOU!!!" So now I'm convinced the information is powerful and that it works."
-Buddy, Tucson, AZ

"First off, I just wanted to say that these guys have written a great book. I heard Steve on the Frank Show in Tucson, Arizona. I have just finished reading it, and I'm planning on going back and reading it once more. I KNOW the stuff they say in there works because that's exactly how I hooked up with my last girlfriend. At the time I had no idea of what CCR was and I had no idea why she was all over me, but after reading the book i now understand. This is not to say that I'm anywhere near where these guys are. But, I hope to be there someday soon."
-Theo, Tucson, AZ

"I just devoured this book the evening I received it, after hearing these guys on Danny Bonaduce and Jamie White's radio show. It is a great comfort to me that I could succeed with women while actually enjoying their company. Other books teach you to manipulate women, but most of the women I like are smart and would see right through that. Besides, I value an emotional connection. I love women and want nothing more than to spend quality time with them… This path gives me time to evaluate who I truly desire. Anyway, I look forward to becoming a man of CCR. This book has given me hope. I'm excited that this book not only shows how to get women, but it sounds like it's a lot of fun along the way."
-Chris, Los Angeles, CA

"I looked at several books on this subject before purchasing this, and as many probably already know, most of them are kind of sleazy and offer questionable advice. I've discussed this book with a handful of friends, and we all agree that this plan makes sense. I'm a medical student in KC, where I heard these guys on KT Live, and my schedule is pretty tight. On a good week, I can probably go out both nights on the weekend and maybe one other night. It is nice to finally have a plan that I can make work on a tight schedule like this."
-Ross, Kansas City, MO

"I moved to Kansas City from Chicago this last summer to go to school. I am a scholarship athlete on the Swimming team here at the University, but I've always been shy when dealing with meeting women. I am very outgoing to guys and girls I already know. I am a really nice guy and get along well with everyone but something didn't translate into meeting women or starting a relationship. I have a lot of girl-friends but I realize they're not the same kind of friends you create with CCR. Close but not really, you know what I mean. I heard these guys on KT live, bought the book, and have been practicing my CCR skills on the girls I already know so I can go out and have the confidence to approach other women. Well, it turns out that I am naturally a Man of CCR and really didn't have to change that much, just adjust the angle in which I deal with women. Since then my girl-friends have been sending there girlfriends to me. I now have to practically fight them off, it's great. And my guy-friends have begun to notice that I'm becoming quite the lady's man. Thank you Men of CCR."
-Skip, Kansas City, MO

"I love this book a lot; got it after hearing Reil on The Locker Room in Denver. Now I feel much more relaxed and confident while meeting girls. Thanks to these guys for putting this info out on the streets. They've taken some of the mystery out of women for me. I woke up this morning with a new sense of hope! It has basically caused me to question my entire outlook on life and my way of thinking. I’ve always been a real man’s man. Macho, tough guy, etc… , hardly ever having female friends. Now that I've read this book, I have a new way to approach women & life!"
-Mike, Denver, CO

"I was looking for dating advice and was searching through subjects online when I came across this book. I was looking up a book called something like "The Machiavellian's Guide to Dating" (which really doesn't compare with this book, to be honest). So I checked out this book, looked at some others, and ended up getting this and the Machiavellian one, which I haven't looked at more than three times. I've read this over and over again. I really think that these guys have got a great concept. I admit I probably bought it for its rather lurid title. I've found the information very useful in my day to day dealings with women. Let me say that I think the concept of CCR is genius. Thanks to these guys for coming up with it and sharing it with everyone."
-Marco, Chicago, IL

"I think these guys are geniuses. They initiated a new scientific revolution in the ways a man would romantically pursue a lady… Performing ccr has changed ALL my relationships, and really boosted my success with women."
-Alijan, Los Angeles, CA

"I just want to say these guys have such an awesome concept in this book, its like nothing i've seen before! Upon hearing Steve talk about this book on a local radio show here in Phoenix ( 98KUPD) I immediately decided to pick up the book and give it a shot. I guess the curiosity got the best of me, and I just had to see if in fact this was going to work. Needless to say that it is working perfectly just as they have described it would. My phone has not stopped ringing lately."
-Reenay, Phoenix, AZ

"Great book - very informative about how to create that emotional connection that is so crucial to all male-female relationships, serious or casual."
-Martin, Chicago, IL

"This is such an insightful book. At times I have been ‘on’ and at other times I haven't. It's nice to know that there's a way to find confidence with women another way than by accident. I'm religious and I believe strongly that I have found my dream girl because of these techniques. Just wanted to let everyone out there know this isn't about deception or trickery like most books on this topic - this is all about treating women how they want to be treated - yes, it works!"
-Rick, New Jersey

"I live around the Dallas, Tx area and a friend told me about this book. I am a self employed male, I am decent looking, I just needed a little something more. I think I used to be kind of the loud, obnoxious type that they mention, but now I see what I need to do. I am amazed what showing interest in the woman does. I highly recommend this book to guys everywhere."
-Michael, Dallas, TX

"The "message" I got from the book's title, cover, and general marketing presentation led me to assume that the book was almost certainly yet another handbook touting hairbrained schemes to deceive unsuspecting female victims. The impression I got from the cover was that the book probably contained lame ideas such as hanging out in a nightclub, filling out a fictitious loan application while sitting at the bar, claiming three times your real income in hopes that nosy hotties will look over your shoulder and be impressed with your finances. Or "tricking" girls into thinking they are going to a party when in reality she's the only guest and you hope to put the hard sell to her when she arrives and is "trapped". In other words, I was expecting LOW CLASS tactics intended for use by LOW CLASS men. The book, of course, contains the exact opposite: Strategies for using respect and compassion to advance your success with women. This book has done an excellent job of tying together a bunch of what used to be disjoint concepts for me, unifying them into a concise strategy for my social life. I figured the least I could do to return the favor was to offer my feedback in hopes it would be of value to others."
-Ronald, Long Island, NY

"These guys are great! I just got the book, after hearing them on Providence/Boston radio. I have only been through 4 chapters but I love it so far. It seems I have been on board for the CCR and I have been doing that part with out any problems. I have had the problems when it comes to the "tenets" especially relinquishing desire and confidence. And I didn't even know these tenets existed until now. Great book and great advice… the first thing I will do is to finish this book."
-George, Providence, RI

"I received the book today, after hearing these guys on the Jamie & Danny Show in East LA. I read the whole thing through without putting it down for even a break !!!! I have found that I was doing things right with girls. However, I found that my problem was that I wasn't giving girls enough of compliments & listening to them, but instead complaining about myself. I also just didn't have enough confidence in myself. But I have learned the value of friendship with a girl & now I hope to have a serious relationship someday in life. I would just like to recommend this book to everyone. It's really helped me!!"
-Leon, Los Angeles, CA